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let me rephrase my question...do girls enjoy bdsm inspite of pain....is it not a torture, do they volunteer?

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1. That is a very good question. Everyone that is into bdsm is experiencing it at different levels. People have different thresholds for pain and their desire to feel pain are for many reasons as well. It is my experience that as long as my partner is administering the pain for example putting on clamps or spanking me, as long as they are doing it carefully and without true violent behavior, I am able to enjoy it because it is a nice kind of pain..but if say I have already climaxed and they keep on manipulating or rubbing the sensitive area then it becomes hurtful and not enjoyable at all. And too unless the person has actually volunteered then it wouldnt be bdsm anymore for fun ,it would be terrifying...bdsm is not for everyone and there are a million view points about it...the best thing you can do is make sure you have a very understanding partner, one who listens to your needs and simply enjoy to the full your sexuality whatever shape it becomes..hope that helped.