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Should I stay single my whole life?

I am afraid that if I got a girlfriend, I would end up getting married, having sex, and having kids. I am deathly afraid of sex because I view it as a submissive and shameful act, and if I had kids, my parents would know that I have sex, which I would be extremely embarrassed about. I know that seems funny, but it brings a great deal of anxiety to me. I want my parents to see me as celibate, not as a person who has sex. I told my parents that I wanted to be single the rest of my life, and they both said that I would be missing out in life if I never got married or had kids. My mom told me that I would change my mind when I met the right girl and my dad told me that sex is a part of life, even though I am still deathly afraid of it.

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  1. Well after reading this I can only assume that you havent gone through puberty yet, or even started it. So dont even worry about women just yet, when you get into high school you'll start to like girls and want to spend more time with them. Eventually you'll want to have sex with them. Try not to look so forward into the future, your still a little kid, sex shouldnt be on your mind, let alone what your parents think or know of your sex life lol
  2. thats exactly what i thought to ! but i found the love of my life and i wnat to be with him forever and all that changed . im stil scared of sex and dont want kids but marriage comes wioth adjsutments and commitments no matter how you feel . so stay single until you meet the one you cant live without
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