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will I remain single forever?

I am 26, and I have never dated anybody in my life. I am of Asian origin- so, arranged marriages are the norm of my society. But, since I have lived in the US for the last several years, I cannot just accept a guy as my husband all of a sudden..I am the worst mix of eastern & western culture. (I am not into dating; nor am I submissive).. I have the feeling that I would remain single forever.. what shd I do?

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1. Try online dating.
2. I'm sure someone will come by and suck all the joy from your life forever. Be patient.
3. Just go for a white guy or something- make sure he isn't the controlling type and you're good to go.
4. you have issues, no wonder... bye
5. well' I don't think anyone accepts someone as their husband all of a sudden, that's the idea behind dating, to get to know them first. try it you might like it!
6. you won't...Go online dating. Or speed dating. Just remeber.... Be cool
7. just be u and you will find him .he fill's the same way 2 .
8. Don't ask someone from work out or a close friend. It ends really bad. Go into a club and look for the loneliest looking guy there (he'll be the one staring at his shoes) and just say hi and your name. Keep eye contact, fiddle with your jewelry or hair every once and a while, and lean inward when he's talking. It makes you seem really interested. Do all that and see where it goes. Never speed date...EVER. It only ends in you feeling like an idiot with no life.
9. Doe, you are still very young so I would not worry too much about remaining single for the rest of your life. There are many ways to meet people with similar likes and dislikes as yourself. If you have any special interests or hobbies you could always join a group of like minded individuals. My son married an Asian girl just over a year ago. He was living in Vancouver at the time and attending a post secondary school there. He was being a tutor to fellow students in ESL and she was actually one of his students. Well they fell in love and now is my daughter in law and we are all very happy and proud to have her as a member of our family. She is a couple years (3) older then my son but they truly do admire each other and he thought much like yourself as he watched his mother and I fail in a couple of relationships and always stated that he's never marry and would always be single. Well sometimes fate has a way of changing things and usually for the better. Do not fret as anything could and will happen and when you are least expecting or looking for a relationship a nice fella will enter into your life. Best of luck.
10. Yes you probably Will stay single forever.
11. Don't do on-line dating because it is dangerous! I thought I would remain single after my first miserable marriage! I met my current husband through our political party forum by sheer accident and we fell in love! Don't be hard on yourself because I am of mix race too and love is there. Sometimes it is there in your face and don't realize it. It could be that nice guy who wants to be your friend!
12. If you take a class in a subject in which you have an interest, you will meet people who share that interest. If you go to church, you will meet people who share your faith. Join theatre clubs, book clubs, wine clubs, anything that is of interest to you and you will meet people who are interested in the same things you are. The next thing will be that they will be interested in you and vice versa. It's so simple. Good luck
13. Don't look to another person to complete you or make you happy. Be happy with yourself first and the right guy will come along when you least expect it.
14. first anyways, don't go looking for a man. Let the man come to you.Live out your life and let the light scope the room.For your perfect mate.This system does'nt have a lot to offer, but trust me, I dated (and if you don't believe me FINE , but it's true) I dated Joey from new kids on the block and there was nothing different, theres someone saying the same thing right know that you just asked. Sincerely a Girl who can't reveal her name, from fame
15. If you aren't into dating, you are limiting yourself as far as ways to meet suitable guys. You've built this up in your mind over the years to the point where you are inhibited from even trying to break through the wall of brooding over all the ways it could go horribly wrong, if you go on a date. Try not to overwhelm yourself with the goal of finding a husband right off the bat. You've got to walk before you can run. You'll have to cover the ground you would have covered in adolescence first, which is just getting comfortable around a guy. It's immeasurably easier to be comfortable and find things to talk about, if you know that you have something in common, first. If you belong to a gym, start looking there. If you belong to any clubs, same thing. A dating service is really not a bad idea. You're a good age for it, and you will already know that you and the guy have some things in common. However you arrange to meet a guy, start slow. Start with a lunch date, or meet for a drink after work. Something where you can get out of it quickly. When you feel that you might be on to a possibility, don't worry about leveling with him about your lack of experience; that's probably a somewhat charming thing in today's society, for some guys. Accept that you are going to make mistakes. Accept that you are not going to meet Mr. Right in six months. Get past that fear, and do something. This is a "little steps" job. Take it one step at a time, and learn from your mistakes. You're gonna get older no matter what you do, so be older and wiser, older and in a happy relationship, or older and stroking your cat, wondering whether you will ever have a date. You're a grown woman now, and the choice to take action is yours.
16. I kind of understand where you are coming from as I am a mix of indian and western culture. It was also hard for me as up don't fit in with your culture but are not fully western as well. I found somehow how is a also a blend of both cultures and we have been married for 17 years with two kids. My advise - find someone how is also a mix of both cultures so you can related to each other and grow as a couple. Try dating someone in your community,church or social circles..etc.