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Are women more comfortable being single and independent or married and interdependent?

This question is not to offend anyone, it's just a question of curiosity. Do women prefer to be single and doing their own thing while being a positive example to other singles or , a married career woman (and mom) being that same positive example showing the ability to be mom, wife, career woman and still be submissive to hubby while holding fast to a degree of independence?

Public Comments

1. What about being married and being independent at the same time? I certainly prefer that. There's no rule that says just because a woman is already married, she can't be independent anymore.
2. first of all, you can not paint all women into a corner and assume they all want the same thing. all women want something slightly different. for me, i am married and independent. and that's great. i don't want kids, but i do want to be with my husband, because we make each other happy. but that's us.
3. There is no real answer to your question. All women are different . Some prefer the single life . Others prefer the married life.
4. A lot depends on the woman herself and her level of comfort and need
5. single and independent when menopausal
6. We can do it all and be independent. Who is submissive to their hubby? Not at my house. I could be comfortable either way but I am glad that I am married.
7. it depends on the woman and her relationships...I loved being single, and I love being a wife and a mother.....question to complex to answer with a yes or no
8. Cheetah7 is right the best relationship I have been in we both were very independent. It was the best.
9. Geez, given some of the responses, call a spade a spade. I know we're all unique, just like everybody else. Still generalisations do apply and have a general element of truth. My experience is that generally, women are more comfortable being in a relationship and interdependant. I know of a number of single women desperate for a 'relationship', and dramatically fewer 'desperate' married women.
10. I have been single and independent and it is wonderful; came and went as I plesed, I traveled on days off to other dtates; saw broadway shows, I did me; now that I am maried when we made the agreement to get married I told my husband what I was use to doing prior to him being a part of it. I told him that I still wanted travel and do he things I did before with him. I still travel and sometimes he comes along with me. We are both succesful I am a RN work 3 days a week and he is a realtor. He knows that I love him; we both bring home money; we hae 2 kids and want another; its basically a mutall agreement; this should have been something you discussed prior to marriage. It can work its just takes communications. Sometimes he doesnt want me to gol and I stay; but sometimes I need me time and he understands. I am good to my husband he get a hot meal everyday, and clean clothes, a clean house, he better give me some freedom. Good Luck