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im 17 and looking for a bdsm club, is there any clubs i could go to most are either 18 or 21+...?
i reli want to get into the bdsm lifestyle but cant find 1 that would let me join would reli aprecaite links to clubs that i could join a links to a site to fite a dom
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- You won't find one. It's illegal for them to let you in. Just wait until you're old enough to join one.
- Sorry, they don't exist. You will have to wait until you are 18, or even 21. For now, the best thing is to fond friends that will experiment with you. I'm a sub myself, and I have no trouble finding guys to dominate me. Just start by offering them oral sex, then offer to service their feet, if your into that, and check how far they are willing to go. Be very careful with bondage. BDSM is perfectly safe if you know what you are doing, but very dangerous and even deadly if you don't. Learn all the safety rules and work out a signal system. BDSM is very rules oriented. It's not just random violence. There is an intricate theory and philosophy behind it. See my answer to this question for a lot more about that (MUST READ FOR YOU; lot's of references and good advice): http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhXC0tS6sc6Qea08c8U5Brnty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090525111044AAZnSsd&show=7#profile-info-Bki85i2Xaa The whole goal of BDSM is not to cause harm. Harm is pain that is not desired. The complicated rules and rituals that make up BDSM are there to PREVENT either party from being harmed. Safety is a major priority. Read up on it if you want to gain insight into BDSM and other fetishes. As with anything else in life, the more you know about something, the more you will get out of it. Hope this helps. Good luck!
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