i know i have since i was quite young, its an erotic turn on for, being forced on to my knees and made to worship them in all ways. its my place in life, i am owned slaved. owned by an older sexually sadistic blk woman. its what fulfils me, i am not forced to, i agreed to be her slave. total submission is hard, its really a brain wash . if you let it happen, it should not be forced by agreed to by both the domme and slave. i'm chained and shackled and leashed at all times when i go to work. wearing a leash is particularly intimidating , especially if you go to bdsm clubs. there is no hiding the fact what you are when leashed. over all i know a lot people both male and female, gay and straight that this serious stuff for them. i know it is for me. i would love to hear from other dominants and submissives. feel free to express your views and feelings. i want to add that this a way of life for me , that i chose. its not just i woke up today and decided, i have been an owned to her for over 10yrs. she loves it and so do i.