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Can woman be turned on by my fetishes?

I generally like to be loving, sensual and passionate, and aim to give the most satisfaction to my partner - even realise some of her bedroom fantasies. But I have some obscure fetishes with bisexual tendencies which include another partner (guy/girl), cross-dressing, anal stimulation (mine or hers), being dominated by her (BDSM), peed on ... Would women generally be able to even tolerate them, could some be attracted by them, Should I ever tell my partner about them or always keep them to myself and which ones.

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1. Theres a chance you might get her to dominate you and theres even a chance of anal stimulation, but getting peed on? I'm sorry but that might be taking things a bit too far. That's the one you should keep to yourself. You'll definetly scare her off! There's definetly a small group of women that are into what you like though. You can always ask still.
2. there is a small group of women that would probably like what you like you need to find dating websites that specialize in that kind of thing if you were dating just anybody i would ask some very discrete questions about fetishes and see where she's at if you get a no move on good luck peed on seriously ewww!
3. She might consider another partner if she is comfortable in y'alls relationship and might enjoy dominating you or even anal stimulation but being peed on? No way... Being peed on is taking it way to far. You will find out how kinky she is the further into the relationship you go. Once y'all are comfortable with trying new things ask her about being dominated or anal stimulation. You might scare her off if you ask her to pee on you. Careful about asking her to bring in another person..I would wait until she says something about it or I would hint around to it just to see what she says.
4. ..yeah..keep it to yourself...that would be the "smart thing"..
5. yes, there are plenty of women that would do these things, you'd be surprised. A couple of sites you can try are: Www.collarme.com and www.alt.com If you're going to find a girl at one of these sites, then you can be up front about all of your kink. But, if you're going to find a girl at some random place, take it slow. Don't meet a girl and say "hey, you wanna p!ss on me?". Start by introducing something tamer, maybe a little light bondage, and gradually as you're relationship grows, and the trust between you grows more and more, you can talk about kinkier things. My girlfriend says "any girl that says 'I would never do that', just hasn't found the man that makes her want to do it." You have to find the right girl, but also, you have to be the right guy.