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How can I tactfully find out if someone I meet in the Society for Creative Anachronism is interested in BDSM?
Years ago, I was a member of the Society for Creative Anachronism. I have some great memories from SCA, and I would like to get involved again soon. Since I left, I've read that a lot of members are also kink enthusiasts. I dated some great women while I was in SCA, and I think it would be great fun to find someone who shared both of these interests. I hate to join a BDSM group just to "cruise". I've read that unescorted men are a surplus and not really encouraged at BDSM events anyway. SCA is the only alternative community I was ever involved with, so it might be the best place for me to find a kink/nerd-culture relationship, because I'd do it for fun regardless. Any advice would be appreciated from either Scadians or kinksters. Thanks! For those hip to BDSM but not SCA, here's a link: http://www.sca.org/sca-intro.html (30,000 members around the world!)
Public Comments
- Mention something that is lite BDSM like spankings and see if any reply in the positive, just be off handed at first. btw what is SCA about?
- First things, first, Where in the world did you find a "Society for creative Anachronism" having more than One active member?.. Second question : If having more than two members (not counting you) Where are the meetings?.. (that can give you a hint on how to politelly bring the subject into disscussion.. ie. Bar : find a BDSM frendly bar... or Church? find a biblical passage ... College auditorium : Put some posters of Wil Chamberlain...
