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am obsessed wiith having a female dominatrix and getting started in BDSM?

Although I have been married many years, I have always been fascinated with the world of domination and BDSM. Got started with an interest in lingerie as a teenager. Although I live in a small town, I have not lost my interest in being controlled especially by a woman who would tell me what to do to please Her and just need a way to get started in it. My brief adventures into BDSM have not been real successful either. However, it is tough being married and keeping a degree of secrecy involved too. Would appreciate ideas or addresses from a female of any age who would be interested in taking me under Her wing. Need a degree of humiliation as i am a sweetheart of a man who is eager to please only You. Money is no object just need to be owned by a Lady.

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1. How much sicker can you get,Honey?
2. Just a thought here - wouldn't it be hot for you if your wife would dominate you proprely? Can she not try it?
3. Dude, your married. Talk to that lady, not me. Second, there are web sites devoted to that stuff. If it's your thing fine, but you need to get things straight with the woman in your life first. If you cheat you will get caught. When you get caught, your wife will have all the money is no object, and you will get squat. If she doesn't do it for you anymore get out of the relationship, but cheating on her is low. You owe her more than that. Talk to her, maybe she can fulfill your needs without your propositioning 3 billion women.
4. Um...have you ever tried going downtown and hitting up random clubs? Maybe thumbing through the classifieds would help you out--a lot of people advertise for some pretty strange stuff there, y'know? Anyway, just google it like "BDSM in/near <insert your town here>" But yeah--that's pretty strange... If you were single, it'd be one thing, but you're married. You need to focus on your marriage and *not* on your sexual fantasies. You have responsibilities to uphold, man. Talk to your wife about this. Maybe she could help you out.
5. Well instead of trying to find a play partner on here try talking to your spouce to see how she feels, if you have been for as long as you say, there shouldn't be any reason not to admit your kinks to her...start out slowly and allow her to adjust and ask questions...if you feel that isn't a possibility then you should try looking on alt.com or bondage.com, You may also want to consdier going to a professional Dominatrix, but one with an excellent reputation, try searching on maxfisch.com they have a wide selection of Dommes from around the world.
6. Well have you found what you are looking for? :o)
7. You sound a little suspicious to me. If you are just posting a personal ad there are better ways of going about it because the people I know that are serious about the D/s lifestyle wouldn't go near you with a 10 ft. pole. However if you are serious: 3 suggestions: there are 2 diff. web sites that may be of help: frugaldomme.com and castlerealm.com Also look into buying: "Come Hither" by Dr. Gloria Braeme.. These should give you a good starting point. Have you tried getting your wife involved?