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In the BDSM D/s, M/s realm, if a woman identifies herself as a slave, why do ....?
people connotate that with being sexually promiscuious? Or that they'll give "it" away to just anybody, i.e. slut or the like?
Public Comments
- it's called ignorance.those who do know ,it's all about understanding and love and a beauty that goes along with with offering ones self to someone very special......xxx
- Consensual slavery has to do with giving over power and control of yourself to your Master. This is a matter of service. Service comes in many forms, sex included but not exclusive. A person who chooses to become involved in a TPE relationship does so for the simple pleasure of serving. This could mean something as simple as serving in a domestic capacity, ie. servant. A person who decides to choose a life as a slave needs to have a healthy self-esteem and the ability to show grace, intelligence and complete obedience. If Master chooses to have you be a complete slut, then that's what you do. That's what's meant by T(otal)P(ower)E(xchange). However, it's the slave's responsibility to choose her/his Master wisely according to her/his needs and wants. If those needs don't include sexual service, then look for a Master who doesn't require that! Slavery does NOT equate stupid/slut/whore/moron!
- I've wondered the same thing, I finally decided it's because people don't expect submissives to say "no" to anything.
- I'm a submissive female & I've only been w/ one man, the one who I lost my virginity to in fact. The "slut" connotation is purely sexual & unrelated to your true status outside of the D/s relationship. As for me & my D we keep it strictly bedroom.
- Some people misunderstand the D/s lifestyle, and see it only as sexual experimentation or kink, rather than as a loving relationship. I think it also comes from too much emphasis being placed on gender; submissive women are perceived as being subservient to men, although we actually only submit to one individual. I may be submissive by nature, but the only person I obey is my partner. Some people also think that we have no self-respect, and no limits... not true at all. Submitting involves a great deal of trust and love, and not many people can bring out those feelings in me.
