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Should I meet up with this guy for BDSM sex tomorrow?
I've talked to him on MSN a few times, and via text, after we starting speaking on a gay dating site. He wants me to come to his place tomorrow, where he's going to tie me up, whip me, slap me, and tie up my balls and hit them with a belt. I've had fantasies about this sort of stuff for ages, and I desperately want to act on them for once, but I'm feeling nervous, mostly because I don't know him all that well. We're going to agree a safe word, and discuss limits beforehand, but still... What do you think I should do? What if we went to a public gay sauna for the session? I guess that'd significantly reduce the possibility of him doing me serious harm.
Public Comments
- you dumb shit.
- better off getting to know him a bit in real life first
- YES, IF YOUR THAT DAMN STUPID, GO!!
- wtf, this is a whole load of rubbish and you need to sort out your life.
- go so we can hear about you on the 6 o clock news. Hell no you shouldn't !
- I wouldn't do it if i were you.. he might be dangerous or something. Or would you enjoy that if he hurt you? hahah jk.
- well if u want to act on them , n its normal tobe nervous meeting someone first time in person. why dont you guys go for coffee or dinner first to let things feel more comfortable than bring it to the bedroom
- Are you serious? You don't know him, he could be an axe murderer!
- do whatever your balls tells you ...but seriously what the hell kinda question is that? for all we know the guy could be a fat stinking drunk!! hav u even seen the guy face to face for all we know this could would probably murder u!!
- I would meet him first and get to know him a little bit before anything else. You can never be too careful with people you meet on the internet.
- im not gay but ill try to think that ur talking about a girl and not a guy lol . If that was me i wouldnt go unless ive seen him on webcam like his actual face cause you can be looking at a picture of a person thats hot and in reality it could be an old fat guy waiting for someone his whole life. Worse for you it could be an old fat woman trying to rape you. It might sound silly but its reality
- This kind of thing does go on be it straight or gay. If you are so desperate to find out, I would say, go to a BDSM club to see if it is for you
- Find an actual boyfriend, even just a friend...as long as you know and trust him. The fetish isn't disturbing,whatever floats your boat, or spanks your monkey...but the "MSN" thing is deeply worrying. Are you an adult? Where WERE you when your parents told you not to go home with strange men?! They don't Cancel the safety warning when you hit 18 you know!
- What does your gut instinct tell you what if he has twenty of his gay mates happen to call round just as your tied up with your gimp mask on and know one can here you object to being raped what if they film you what if that they made a snuff film and you were the Star get real my friend your not thinking of it now are you???
- Ouch! But seriously... why don't you meet him somewhere in public a few times before you agree to go to his place. You really have no clue about this guy. Play it safe. If you decide that you just have to go to his place have a friend come with you to his place and have them specifically say (in front of both of you) that they will be back at X time to pick you up. Make sure they come back to his door at that time too. That way if anything goes awry at least someone will be the wiser.
- Why not post this in the gay and lesbian, you would probably get feedback from another man that likes to have his nuts tied up and bruised. I have a safe word for you--Wacko--no, might not be heard in the heat of the moment and misunderstood as hit me baby one more time, Nuts--no, might inflict more injury to those parts--I think your safe word had better be HELP as loud as you can scream it.
- FFS this has got to be a joke....lol
- the most obvious answer....nooooo...
- this doesnt sound right,what if its a trap?plz plz plz plz plz dont go. at the end of the day its up to you if you go,make sure you tell someone where your going,and take your phone.good luck.x
