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Should I meet up with this guy for BDSM sex tomorrow?

I've talked to him on MSN a few times, and via text, after we starting speaking on a gay dating site. He wants me to come to his place tomorrow, where he's going to tie me up, whip me, slap me, and tie up my balls and hit them with a belt. I've had fantasies about this sort of stuff for ages, and I desperately want to act on them for once, but I'm feeling nervous, mostly because I don't know him all that well. We're going to agree a safe word, and discuss limits beforehand, but still... What do you think I should do? What if we went to a public gay sauna for the session? I guess that'd significantly reduce the possibility of him doing me serious harm.

Public Comments

1. Make sure you tell someone where you're going in case you end up missing (no joke) and use protection. Have fun!
2. This makes me sick. What if he slaps your testicles off with the belt? NO MORE BABIES FOR YOU.
3. no dont do it homosexuallity isnt cool
4. You should say "thanks, but no thanks" until you know him better. BDSM requires more trust than any other sexual relationship, imo, and isn't something you begin with someone you barely know. Unless of course you want to end up being cut up into tiny little pieces by a serial killer. Get to know the guy much better first (in a public setting, preferably), then revisit the subject.
5. just be careful...
6. If you're feeling nervous about it there's probably a reason for that. Trust your instincts. If you want to wait to get to know him better, go ahead and do that. If he really wants this too, he'll wait. And like the other person said - make sure you tell a friend where you're going and have them contact police if they don't hear from you by a certain time.
7. I think I'd meet him at a neutral place BEFORE you agree to go to his house. I mean, I know you wanna get your balls smacked and whatnot, but still, what if this guy's a real creeper? Be safe, and meet for a drink first, and then decide if you want him to whack the boys around. Oh, and I agree with the first person too. Always, always tell one person where you're going and who you're going with just to be on the safe side. SEE! Now yer thinking sport! The sauna is a perfect idea!
8. what if he won't let you go after that? I think you shouldn't really go there it's dangerous tell some people before you're going
9. Go have fun
10. no you should meet up with me for BDSM sex
11. Firstly, ignore those who've said that it's wrong, many people have these fantasies (such as myself). Just be careful, maybe meet in a safe place before hand so that you're not in too deep to begin with. Take things at your place and make sure you're in control as much as possible (which I know is hard if you're being submissive). The idea of a safe word is a good idea, but make sure you're comfortable with what's going on and use protection.
12. This is really dangerous, seriously, you guys should go meet in person and go out a few times before agreeing to sex...he might be dangerous...for real. Be very careful, and my best suggestion would be don't do it yet. Get to know this person better, and better if some of your friends could meet him too, and always let people know where you are going to be in case something (hope it doesn't) but in case something happens. Don't be so impulsive...take a little more time, if he wants to do these things to you and you want it, I am sure you can both wait a little in the meantime just play with yourself!
13. Hmm, i think you should just make sure you know what your dealing with, other than that i hope you have fun! =]
14. NO-you should not meet some stranger for sexual activities. It's dangerous not only to your safety, but health, and living such a life will forever seperate you from God. Gods desire is that you be reconcilled unto him for all of eternity. He loves you. He hates that kind of lifestyle. You should repent, and ask him to come into your life, accept him as your lord and saviour and in him you will find a greater satisfaction than fulfilling those fantasies. You will have the power to overcome such perversion. I pray that you will come to understand what I am saying and to know the joy of being with your wife. God Bless!
15. who's coming with the giant fist dildo?
16. Why don't you just watch *****, you can get off without the pain. There's this one video where two guys in the ******* are going at it, one of them ***** before *******. Its like 12 mins long and they are both *** ****.