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Should I meet up with him for BDSM sex tomorrow [REVISED] ?

I've talked to him on MSN a few times, and via text, after we starting speaking on a gay dating site. He wants me to come to A PUBLIC GAY SAUNA, where he's going to tie me up, whip me, slap me, and tie up my balls and hit them with a belt. I've had fantasies about this sort of stuff for ages, and I desperately want to act on them for once, but I'm feeling nervous, mostly because I don't know him all that well. We're going to agree a safe word, and discuss limits beforehand, but still... What do you think I should do?

Public Comments

  1. stop being such a perv is the best answer.
  2. uhhhhhhhh NO
  3. why ask us, seems your mind is made up
  4. NO NO NO
  5. meet the guy if you like him go for it if not say no thanks and walk away
  6. uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
  7. SICKO!
  8. Get to know him first. You never know - a stranger might just want to hurt you (in a nasty way). Be careful.
  9. CRINGEEEEEE!
  10. OMG! LMAO!!!!!!!!! so funny! i think your mind is kinda made up to going. but if i were you i would try to get to know him a little better. but it's your choice
  11. Go for it
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