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Should I meet up with him for BDSM sex tomorrow? [REVISED]?
I've talked to him on MSN a few times, and via text, after we starting speaking on a gay dating site. He wants me to come to A PUBLIC GAY SAUNA, where he's going to tie me up, whip me, slap me, and tie up my balls and hit them with a belt. I've had fantasies about this sort of stuff for ages, and I desperately want to act on them for once, but I'm feeling nervous, mostly because I don't know him all that well. We're going to agree a safe word, and discuss limits beforehand, but still... What do you think I should do?
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- i dont understand how could guys turn out to be homo's, where has this world gone to?
- Dude, listen. BDSM is not something you do with a stranger. Meet him at like, Waffle House and talk to him for a while. Also, no sauna is going to let you do that there (and it would be too hot (temp) anyway) You need to do it like this: Meet him Get to know him Decide if you like him Have some cuddle time Have some vanilla sex go from there. Don't go straight from texting to bdsm. That is how people end up chopped up in the basement.
- Don't do it. He sounds psycho
- ...........
- don't go its just not safe.
- If you're all for it...whatever floats your boat. Although...well, that's more opinion, so never mind. =]
- wow ummm kind of weird but if you want to its your choice ( gag ) = |
- Unscrew the top of your head and look inside and see if you have any brains left.
- Do things this way: Set up a "safe call" with your closest friend (arrange that if you get into trouble, you'll ring and give them a "secret word" or phrase that only the two of you know). If you need convincing about why the safecall is a good idea, read up on the "Slavemaster". Meet the guy in a public (non sexual) place (a coffee shop works well). Make sure to keep other people around you at all times. If he asks you to go back to his place on this "first date" dont. If this "first date" goes well, arrange to meet him again...keep to the public places, and maintain the "safecall" arrangement with your friend. Keep going like this until you feel comfortable enough to go back to this guy's place. On the day, remember the SSC creed, and make sure you stick to it. If he's not willing to allow you safewords and things, make sure to walk out. Good luck!
