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How do men feel about wild girls in the bedroom?
For example, I like to consider myself a classy girl. I don't give it up to gives easy, all that bs. However, once I finally give in and get used to the guy in the bedroom... I start to slowly show him my kinky side. I might ask at first, smack my a$$. Normal right? Then I might go on, and ask... smack me in the face. Choke me a little. Call me a b!tch while you pound it from the back. Maybe not full on bdsm, but a little more than the "average girl." So my question, mainly to guys but girls are welcome too, is... Would the fact that a girl who you never expected to have that other side, the kinky side, turn you on or turn you off? Would you assume that if she has that secret, that you would start to get the wrong idea she was a loose girl just because of that factor? Men, how would you feel about a girl like this? Would mildly kinky things mainly turn you on, or would you start to wonder? Could you ever find yourself in a relationship with this kind of woman?
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- i'd kich her a**. i mean she deserves to get her a** kicked.
- Im interested in the answers to this..Ive been known to surprise a few men as well.. lol
- I could for short time, but this couldn't last, its fun for a while while your young and restless but in time it would get annoying, but for the short time itd be very fun, a new style, but girls that are that way are usually one nighters
- argh your weird..
- You wouldn't know that for sure in a desent woman untill your relationship developed.
- From my expereince it depends on the guy. I have scared a few myself, but others were very happy.
- Depends on the guy. But mostly men, generally, with all that testosterone, are horny like hell and would love that(sex).
- i love girls with a kinky side like you for me its a HUGE turn-on, but if you seem like you wouldnt have that side to you unless you actually show it to a guy, then that guy may not like it because he was not expecting it from you seroiusly though, there is NOTHING hotter than a real classy girl who has a wild side in bed. MMMMPH!! im getting hard just thinking about it!!!
- i think thats a turn on i love that in a girl i dont like the real boring girls in bed
- I'm a girl, and take no offense to my answer cuz if that's what you like, then that's what you like. But why would you want a guy to hit you or call you names? I just find that really disrespectful and I would hope that my boyfriend would never think of hitting a girl or calling her such names. So I guess I'm just confused as to why you'd like this treatment?
- i don't think so i'd think she'd turn me into her sex slave
- Everyone has different sexual desires and stuff. I am sure there is a guy that has the same desires that you do that would go wild over you enjoying that. Some guys might be more timid around the subject while some guys may be open to anything. My boyfriend enjoys me being kinky by telling him to call me a b!tch and doing things as you suggested. Men have wild ideas that pop into their heads, so i am sure you can't throw anything at them taht they havent fanatized about before!
- Hell yeah, I do all that stuff! Well, I did until the whore left... I get busy like charles manson did in the day. Two times a day minimum. Except now its with my hand because I'm a shut in...
- yea thats awesome and im sure almost all guys would love that in a women. So for me its a turn on and i could deff find myself in a relationship with that kind of women.
- For being a 27 y/o single guy i've been with numerous women in the bedroom (no bragging) and i have dealt with women that have had that kinky side and it does turn me on. Now for being in a relationship with one, nah it wouldn't bother me either shit i think it would strengthen the relationship..now for the face slapping and choking part that's some masochistic shit i aint going to deal with. I'll smack ass and talk shit in bed.
- Would the fact that a girl who you never expected to have that other side, the kinky side, turn you on or turn you off? It's turn on Would you assume that if she has that secret, that you would start to get the wrong idea she was a loose girl just because of that factor? No, one doesn't = the other. I'm sure there are plenty of girls out there just like you; not too quick to jump in the bed but wild once they're there. But, that being said, I don't see anything wrong with a "loose" girl. I don't subscribe to the double standard that guys can't get laid as much as they want but a girl needs to wait for the right time or guy. If you find a guy you want to bang, then bang'em; no judgments here. Men, how would you feel about a girl like this? I'd prefer a girl like this. "Vanilla" sex has it's place, and all sex is good (sex is like pizza, even if it's bad, it's still pretty good), but I like (need) to get rough every now and then, and I like (need) a girl that can handle it. Would mildly kinky things mainly turn you on, or would you start to wonder? Forget mild, let's get crazy. I pretty much answered this already; it's a turn on. I think you should embrace your sexuality. EDIT: Adam K. - If a girl wants to be choked and smacked in the face, she's more likely to want to be YOUR slave than turn you into HERS (although a masochist doesn't necessarily want to be a slave or a sub) EDIT: K. Brooke - "But why would you want a guy to hit you or call you names? I just find that really disrespectful and I would hope that my boyfriend would never think of hitting a girl or calling her such names." There's no disrespect involved. I respect my girlfriend immensely. Think of it as a kind of escape for both people. It's stepping outside of the "norm", of your comfort zone. In a D/s (Dominance/submission) relationship, the Dom is not doing anything that the sub isn't ok with. If a girl gets turned on by having her hair pulled and being called a wh0re, and a guy gives that to her; is she being disrespected? It's a mutual exchange. You may not think you would like something like that, but you may find someday (people's taste change through life) that you do. I hope this makes sense and I helped you better understand. I'm pressed for time and I don't feel like I articulated my thoughts very well. Please read this article: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/342406/bdsm_101_the_basics_of_bondage_and.html?cat=41
