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Dating a Bisexual?

Well i'm 14 year old straight female, and I have a kind, loving gentle boyfriend. He's bisexual; and I no problem with this. He's into cross dressing and BDSM and i'm willing to explore those kinks with him. My question is; Should I let him play around with other boys while we're together? He keeps asking me to let him do anal on my and t-b-h i'm just not comfortable with the idea. Thanks your time likeeeeeeee Yes, he's 14 too. He asked for anal because I wouldn't have proper sex with him as neither of us had a condom. He said "why don't I do you in a place where you can't get pregnant then?" I couldn't think of any valid excuse apart from the fact that I wouldn't be comfortable with it. I heard anal is where alot of STDs are to be picked up...? radar_lover_200 : Thanks for that, you're dead helpful like.

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Just do whatever YOU feel comfortable doing, not whatever he WANTS you to do. go with your own instincts and don't be pressured into anything in ANY relationship EVER.
Is your bf 14 too? The kids these days are so screwed up. Or if he's 18, you shouldn't let him do anything to you.
Ummmm.....no hunn. Thats GROSS and you dont know where he's been he could have AIDS sweety ok!!
ONLY 14 years old????? You must be joking.
I'm 18, bi and am also dating a bi the same age as me. I have also tried anal. I'm probably the only girl I know who likes it and is comfy with the whole thing. However, always be safe!!! Anal is the MAJOR gateway to STDs and you should never have any kind or penetration one or both of you is under the legal sex age. It could lead to arrest. Just keep it safe and stay sensible. You're still young and don't need to explore these things at this age.
bossing someone around is really fun.. make him pee on himself.. slap himself... i bossed a 19 year old and im only 14
your to young for any of this
omg no thats styill cheatin, if hes goin out with u he shunt even think of doin that
thats way young to truly know your sexuality. He may get to the point where he decides he is fully gay. (happend to a bud of mine in high school) Be cautious. and yes, as an adult, i feel obligated to say YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG!! Even though i'm sure you will ignore it. ( i would have at your age)
You 14. You shouldn't be exploring jack squat with him.
Go buy condoms and KY jelly and have fun experimenting. Use condoms for ALL intercourse, not just vaginal. Also, if he pays with other guys, they must use condoms for ALL intercourse. Beyond that, enjoy!
did i hear you say loving gentle bf? and lowsy excuses about not getting pregnant? you better watch it girl! you've got every right to your body! Next time around he's gonna ask for more SELFISH stuff! READ MY LIPS: ONLY BISEXUALS DO ANAL! IT'S NOT HEALTHY AND SEXY EITHER! There's a sick guy befind those tender loving MASK if you ask me! And whatever happen to bjs? WHERE'S YOUR SELF-RESPECT KID? Unless you wanna end up like him, then it's your choice! Whatever happen to that STRAIGHT female image you say... SEX IS NOT MEASURED IN TERMS OF ACROBATICS! OR WHO'S IN OR NOT! THINK AGAIN, AND THINK HARD!
If you dont want anal dont let him, I used to say if a guy wants to do anal with me id let him if I could stick a cucumber up his ... there. no anal :) If you want to explore with him go for it sounds good to me also, after reading the other peeps posts, just because he wants anal doesnt mean he's a bad person, its tighter and apparently its better. if thats the only time he asked you, and it wasnt to get you pregnant then hes very decent.. its so much better than him forcing you, its nice to know you stand your ground on things like that as well.
Monogamy isn't the be all and end all of relationships. But whether you want playing with others to be a part of your relationship though is a personal decision for you to make. There's no right or wrong answer there, but you have to be comfortable with it. If you do decide to explore that, there's three rules to follow: 1. Communication 2. Communication 3. Communication You both have to be *very* clear on what the rules, boundaries, and expectations are in an open relationship. With whom, how often, what's allowed (kissing, for example), etc. Don't assume anything. And finally: ALWAYS USE A CONDOM Anal sex is the primary vector by which the worst STD's (read: HIV) spreads. Especially if he's going to be doing anything with other guys, you want to be very insistent that a condom is used in all sexual play.
14yo, and dating a bi guy? hey, there are no bi guys, either you suck dick, or you dont! bi guys seem to prefer being with another guy, more than a girl, i have been told, anyway.