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This man and I have a strange relationship, I need advice.?
ok here goes. This older man and I have been seeing each other for the past 3 years. We have this BDSM relationship, where he hurts me physically and emotionally. The reason I allow him to do these things is because I need the money he gives me every month to get by. I know most of you probably think I'm nuts for keeping this secret life. I have not been in a real relationship in 5 years. However I am unable to make ends meet without him. I want to feel good about myself but sometimes I just can't stand myself for letting things get this bad. I am a single mom and newly college grad, but I can't find a descent job. I just want to start over I just have no money, I am desperate to make things right. What would you do? My parents are deceased and I have no family.
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- Take your child and go to a shelter. They will support you and help you find work and a place to live. There are shelters for abused women and even though it's been of a private nature, it is still abuse. If you are thinking, "ewww", then you are not as interested in getting out as you think. But if you stay where you are, you are trading your humanity and self-repect for money and a place to live. Do some research, find a place, and move out while he is gone.
- I would rather be at a shelter than let some old perv degrade me.
- I would tell you to find any job right now and apply for assistance in your area. If you have to get two jobs then so be it. There are plenty of single mothers that get by without a man. I know sweetie I am one of them. There is no reason for you to be degraded and abused like this. Think of your child would you want him or her treated like this? Or treating another person like your being treated? Ask god to help you and I can promise you that you will get through it, not guaranteed you but PROMISE you. Good Luck sweetie and God bless!!!
- I'm with a man that drinks daily also works too so working alcoholic not nice to me but the money he does give me is extra I do make my own because Iam on disabilty but that is not alot right now to get me on my feet . he is aggressive to me yes he has hit me we have had our fights but yes I do love him maybe not in love affarid of being alone it's almost 6yrs with him I wish I had a answer for you but I don't for myself and almost 40 yes sad but true my life has never been normal since my divorce. hope to hear from you robin in il.
