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My wife and I recently went to a BDSM/Swinger party at a local dungeon. We've been to several house parties where everyone is polite and asks for permission before touching kissing or groping anyone else. At this particular party however, there were single men, which is not typical of these parties. One of the single men, who was the dj and up on stage took his peter our of his pants and aimed it in my wife's direction as she was just below the stage on the dance floor as if she was going to suck it for him. She didn't because we're just not into that type of random behavior. We have played with a couple of couples, but are very selective. My question is: Are there women who would have taken this stranger? And we wonder if others have sex at these events just for the sake of it, or do you need to have some attraction to the other participants?
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- well i think that is crazy for someone to just go down on someone in a club we have been to several parties meet and greets and house parties but we never have had sex with them on the night we meet now must kissing and making out that is differant i will do thatin a club or first meet SOMETIMES
- Yes, there are women and men alike who would have taken the stranger. And yes, some people do have sex just for the sake of sex. I, on the other hand, have to be attracted to some one to have sex with them.
- if you and your wife are happy in love, why are you going to such places? i don't want to fan out the flames of curiosity or sexual adventure, but the question you both need to ask one and other is, what do 'you and your wife' have to do to re-vamp your own sexual pleasures and to stop visiting these places. sex with any stranger or couple you don't know sounds dangerous to me.
- "And we wonder if others have sex at these events just for the sake of it". I'm wondering the same thing about you? I could never imagine sharing my spouse with some random person at a party. I think you should look at yourself. Maybe he thinks it's normal to do this at a place like this. Maybe he thought of it more like an orgy party. There are going to be interesting people when you go to a place like this. I don't think you are completely comfortable going there. What if your wife wanted to do the act? How would you feel? Maybe you want to do something spontaneus that she would not aprove. Please be careful, it could ruin something wonderful that you already have.
- I probably would have IF my husband thought it was ok.... I have done much worse (with his permission, of course) Yes, i DO have to be attracted to someone to have sex in ANY event.... PS: Glad to see someone is enjoying themselves - just because you are married doesnt mean ya cant have fun!
- We don't do those kind of swinger parties ourselves, but I'm sure there are plenty of women that would have taken the DJ up on his offer.
