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Does anyone have experience with the husband wearing a chastity device?

My husband has been asking me to try a fetish lifestyle where he wears a chastity device and I hold the key. I never really knew they made chastity devices for men until he showed me picture of several different kinds that he found on the internet. We have been married for 15 years and he says this will add some spice to our sex life. At first I though it was either some kind of a joke or something for people into extreme BDSM - but he says it is really just a mild from of domination and that I might like the aspect of having control which I must admit does interest me a little. Some of these devices are $150 or more. He also tells me i have to learn to role play the part of a "chastity mistress" and use "training techniques". Anyone else doing this and having fun? He tells me this is more for married couples who have been together for a while. I am interested to hear what you have to say.

Public Comments

1. Get that man and yourself on the Jerry Springer show. They love stuff like this. Freak show lmao
2. I only hope I read about your double suicide some someday.
3. If your ok with it then theres nothing wrong with it at all.
4. I have been in the lifestyle for about 5 years. I am a Domme, which means that I have the control. Whilst I have not had any submisives that want me as their keyholder, I believe I can answer your question. IF you and your husband wish to explore this area, you BOTH have to decide how far you want to go. You do not HAVE to play any parts that do not appeal to you. Nor do you HAVE to use training techniques. You can if you want~obviously. As far as your husband saying that it is a mild form of domination, he is correct; there are much more extreme forms: whippings, brandings, and FEMDOM to name a few. However, keep in mind that ALL are consentual--it is one of our hallmarks. Also, please know, that because we practice this, it does not make us sick perverted individuals...our trademarks are Safe, Sane, Consentual.