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I am starting to think i might be into BDSM, am i too young to be interested? im 14.?
please be honest and tell me what its like. i want to know. Also Where can i find more out about it. i looked on wikipedia and that was all. also is it only the girls that are forced to wear posture collars and hogtied, or if you are a guy is that possible. I also like the thought of being tied up as well I am A guy as well
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- This is not a safe subject of conversation to bring up at your age, being a minor. I don't think you will find anyone who is willing to educate you in BDSM, because of your age, and risk finding themselves in Jail. Sorry hon, wait until you are a legal adult before exploring the darker side of sexuality.
- Way to young... Wait to years until you can at least legally have sexual intercourse...
- I agree with Spooky. Sorry.
- ummm well. (im 14 myself) umm, i masturbated on the fone with a friend before. shes a girl and i am too. eerrrr. i guess thats one way to be bdsm maybe im too young. = ]
- it's a mystery... for some reason this generation has being receiving to many hormones so young.... girls are getting their period at age of TEN! and i will have to agree you are way too young...
- why are u too young to like a little BDSM? I started getting into that when I discovered porn (at around age 10-11). It isn't bad to like being tied up. You are just exploring ur sexual perferences and fantasies. Just don't have sex with older guys. If you could, have sex with other minors ur age. Once you get older (over 18), you can visit BDSM parties where they have a bunch of guys who also enjoy the same thing. You can also find a partner willing to try these fantasies out.
- Yeah, there are guys who sub in BDSM. But there are no fourteen year olds, because you aren't old enough to give your consent legally for that sort of activity. Anyone who is willing to engage in anything like that with you at your age does not have your best interests at heart. If it's something you're into, don't worry. It will still be there waiting for you when you are older, and can enter that world in a safe and sane manner.
- I can only tell you a few things, because you're a minor. But I used to get played with A LOT when I was 10-15 back in the day when nobody cared what "kids" were doing. I had all kinds of crazy stuff done to me, and 90% of it was way fun. Like I'm part Lakota so they would hang me by my wrists from a tree out in the woods when we would "play cowboys and Indians" and they'd tickle me to complete hysteria to make me "talk". Just be sure you are ALL kids if you experiment before you are 18. You say you are 14 and suppose you have a bud who is 16 and likes playing with you. Fine. But if your guy is 18 or over and you're still 14...HE COULD GO TO JAIL, even though you are just enjoying some harmless fun. And yes, guys wear all the gear, everything you can imagine. BE CAREFUL!
- My answer is that you're too young and at the same time you're not too young. Personally I don't believe you're ever too young to educate yourself. At the same time, I got into BDSM as a submissive at a very very young age and I know many other people who did the same and many of them including myself got hurt. The unfortunate fact is that teenagers, legal or not, tend to get abused and taken advantage of a lot more than other older BDSM players. If you're going to educate yourself, try and consider the source, websites such as wikipedia are not reliable because anyone can post information regardless of how valid it may be. Finally, even while trying to educate yourself, it's very very important that you be safe not just regarding safe sex but safe regarding your own physical and emotional safety.
