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Found out my boyfriend is into BDSM and now wont involve me.?
Since I found out of his interest in this stuff ive been open to trying it. We have done some mild kink like spanking in the bedroom allready. But now he wont involve or ask me to do some of the BDSM acts. I feel like he's leaving me out on something he is interested in. He said he never told me about his fasination in it before because of my "good girl" persona. Before we dated he would go see a dominatrix and im not so sure now that he still doesnt do this from the information ive seen on his history list. I have no idea how to approach him on the whole thing but I feel like our sex life is strained now. I could just use some advice...can this work out? Or should I stay or should I go?
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- dress the part and get the whip and chains out when he gets home
- I think personally that you should stay with him and try to talk it out if he doesnt answer at first be persistant and ask him like everyother day or so but dont give up on him he just might not feel comfortable on doing that with you because of your "good-girl" persona hes used to you being nice not THAT kinky Ive had this happen to me before...
- I think since u have said you'll try it with him but he keeps leaving u out, u should move on out of this relationship. He's lying to u, and he's shutting u out. NOT good for a relationship! Leave him with his silly fantasies. His loss.
- First, are you interested in (i.e. turned on by) bdsm yourself? If so, you can change the "good-girl" image he has of you by finding ways of exploring bdsm independently yourself. For example, find someone who can teach you how to be a dominatrix. Learn the fine art of rope bondage, how to properly (and safely) wield a paddle/crop/flogger, how to (over)stimulate the male prostrate, as well as some of the finer details of CBT (cock and ball torture). Then get dressed up in domme gear and spring a "surprise session" upon your beloved.
