my husband and i am involved in bdsm and we are bringing another girl in the picture how will this affect my m
Public Comments
- Why did yo get married?
- youre a true idiot if you bring in another girl
- share everything with her.good for you.
- happened to a girl I know, married, her and husband brought in another girl. D I V O R C E... She's alone, he's with other girl.
- well, might as well pack a bag and call ur attorney..at least have him on speed dial..BC ur gonna need one if u bring a 3rd person in on ur marriage... what would ur hubby say if u wanted another man?? would the answer be the same!!
- Are you secure enough your marriage to do this. Are you the jealous kind? What if the situation was reversed and it was another man? Would your husband be ok with this? I'm sure hes ok with another woman he gets to have his cake and eat it too. I think you're asking for trouble.
- not from my own experience, but from a few of my friends, they would all say, DO NOT DO IT! it NEVER pans out to what you thought it would be. even if you do set up strict guidelines/rules. it just does not work. unless it's worth the cost of your marriage and mutual trust, then do it. if it's not worth it, think of another idea of what to do together, and do it quickly!
- girl your marriage is over
- many many ways all depends on how you truelly feel about it though
- Have your attorney on speed dial. He's asking for your permission to cheat in front of your face. If you think this is going to somehow strengthen your bond with this man you call "husband", you are sadly mistaken and you know better as well. Get ready to say goodbye.
- I wouldn't recommend it, hasn't happened to me but someone i knew and it ended. She said if she could go back she wouldn't do it again.
- You won't have a marriage once you invite another into your bedroom.
- 3sums only end well for the guest, as they usually run off with one member of the couple. However, the fact that you are into BDSM makes it a little different, in that one of you enjoys being dominated. If you are totally cool with your husband sharing his body, heart, mind and soul with another chick, then you might survive it.
- if she is good ,your gone !!
- It depends on the roles. If he's dom and you're a switch, you should insist that the girl be totally sub. That way you can dom her while hubby doms you both. In that situation, she's no threat. If he's dom and you're sub, he will want another sub. That's where things could get dicey -- unless you're ready for a poly relationship. That can work, as long as all parties know what's going on and enter with their eyes open.
- Honestly, it depends on how strong your relationship is. If you are both devoted to each other, then the third person will not affect your relationship. He cannot be taken away from you, unless he wishes to be.
Powered by Yahoo! Answers