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Are woman or little girls who grow up with a signal father typically submissive woman? Are woman or little girls who grow up with a signal father typically submissive woman? I mean there single father raised them very well and tried very hard to be the best father she can have.

How can I be a more submissive woman? Guys like Asian women because they're submissive (is what I've been told). So what exactly does a submissive girlfriend/wife do? I'm really want to know because I'm sick of being alone and single.

How to Cure Submissive Urination in Dogs? My dog is two (no longer a puppy). But she continues to suffer from an involuntary behavior most often associated with puppies -- submissive urination. Every day I come home and she is happy to see me -- so she pees. (Note: I do NOT make a 'big deal' out of greeting her. But just seeing me sets her off.) When I get out the leash to go for a walk -- she pees. If I walk around a corner in the house and surprise her unexpectedly with direct eye contact -- she pees. Vet says nothing physically wrong with her. I have had her for 9 months. She may have been abused before I got her, but my training methods have been entirely gentle. I even took her to obedience training, but that has made things WORSE. She obeys, but pees on every single command (sit, down, come, etc.) This is an involuntary behavior, I understand -- but if it does not end soon, we are going to have to part ways! Help!

im a black guy that loves being submissive to white couples. how do i find a couple? im a black guy that likes being submissive to a white woman or couple. i know its crazy but thats just what it is. im having trouble finding a couple or single. im in west palm beach, florida. if anyone can help me that would be great.

Why do some women like the fetish to be submissive with no limits? I have encountered many women and girls, young and old, pretty and some not so pretty, married and single, who have a craving for role playing as a submissive slave to a master who would do and say things to her that no one would ever expect of them. Asking some of you ladies who have this urge to answer personally to this. If you are practising, fantasising or supressing it, You can express yourself. I take this as part of my study to be an even more effective and undersatnding master. No preaching please, I know it all Amazing. I am receiving a few good comments, especially where it is mentioned that the women in a way feel they are still in control. Very interesting. Now I want some good well thought out and provoking answers from the girls. Quirks and snide little comments will go unnoticed. I will judge the best resonse.

is it normal being a masculine gay male to want to be more submissive in a realtionship? 40 year old , single , not sure where or how to find a more dominate partner , the past ones were submissive , i consider myself 50/50 and just want a loving relationship with a cute yet more dominate partner , yet one that looks more feminine as i definately look masculine , am i asking too much or for something abnormal?

Do you ladies agree that once a single man becomes married, that he becomes submissive in relationships?

a child with a tattoo who is submissive? what do you think of a 3 yr old who gets a tattoo and has a single father raising her cause he's morocan and the mother is a american scum dog, do you think this will make her submissive ? ( rolls eyes ) yes Im being sarcastic peirced ears childoften tattoogirl and the other id's you have piss off queen of hearts, that just means you are a newbie

What exactly a submissive male needs.? I am a 48 year old single women. Due to curiosity i put and add for a submissive male for my home i received 726 mails. is it real. is it possible that i select some near to my town and put to work in my farm.

Should a woman be subject to a man, or submissive to a man? Please feel free to explain why, or why not. Thank you. Also, if she has been single, hardworking, managing her own affairs successfully with much to show for it...is she supposed to defer herself to a man upon dating/marriage? Just curious.

Must a strong willed woman become submissive in order to find a good man? Background: Married at a young age and took too many responsibilities in order to accomplish goals. Dealt with irrisponsibility, emotional abuse for too long. I'm now a single independent mom, looking to meet a good carreer/family oriented man without them being controlling or dominating? Are men intimidated by attractive women with brains?

How do horses determine who is dominant? I mean, do they really just have like a clash of the teeth? It does not seem like that is true, because foals learn very quickly to be submissive to their mares, without even a single nip. How does that work? Thanks!

Why would I date divorced USA single woman with kids when I can jump on a plane and go find a submissive Asian USA woman: When they are loaded with money they stay single and have lots of woman friends. When they are poor, they are on drugs, and have like 2 or 3 kids.. No Thankyou! Not, when their is billions of single woman in Asia with good ethics and moral character. USA sux! And, when I use submissive - I actually mean a woman that is feminine and normal. Not a USA BRUTE!

y do ppl think indian girls r submissive? been to india many times.. never seen a girl who is submissive. here in mexico i've 5 gfs but there in india i worked so hard but couldnt find a single one.. i donno whats the prob with these indian girls. god they r so rude n proud.. aaauuhh...

Single women, please fill out this questionnaire? This is a series of ten true-or-false questions that will help me determine women's true take on singlehood. Please respond with only "true" or "false." (All of my answers are "false.") 1. I feel like I need to be in a romantic relationship to be happy. 2. My main goal at this time is to find a boyfriend. 3. I sometimes worry that I will die unmarried and childless with 37 cats. 4. When I go out, I always dress to impress any guys who might notice. 5. The best way to attract a guy is to be submissive to him. 6. I sometimes wonder if my intelligence is a turn-off. 7. Women who say that they're happy being single are liars. 8. Men are threatened by ambitious and successful women. 9. I always let guys open doors for me and pay for me on dates. 10. Feminism hurt women more than it helped. 11. It is better for women to be in the home, taking care of the children. 12. I don't believe in 50/50 relationships. angelbaby8087, I'm doing this as research for an editorial. Just to clear things up: Question #11 refers to ALL women, whether they want to or not. StrawberryAniseShortcake, I asked for SINGLE women.

Iam a seperated Indian woman wanting friendship with dominating women preferably Indian. Send me message.? I am a south Indian woman seperated from husband. Iam a submissive woman who likes to be dominated and controlled. Iam aged 35. I like to preferably have relationship starting with e-mail with dominating women who are mature and married,divorced or single. I also invite young girls, couples and men (in that order). Iam working in a mnc bank. I shall tell you more about me if you send me a message.

i have two male ferrets and im getting very concerned... they have lived together since seperation from their mothers and are living in a large rabbit pen in my garden. they like each other but recently i can see that my larger hob (a massive beautiful albino named howard moon) has started violently chasing and tackling my smaller submissive ferret (a friendly and well trained polecat named vince noir) and well, sort of raping him. there are small cuts from where he grips him so tight with his teeth. the polecat is always very upset after this and i seperate them immediatly if this is happening but i am not always there to seperate them. i can not provide a jill for them as this would lead to kitts that i would have to sell and i am way too sentimental to do that and i do not know a single other person that would buy them. ive been warned not to seperate them because that would lead to the larger hob getting more violent. please help me i think this may be a serious problem.

submissive doberman towards large dogs? i have a 6 month old doberman who is a perfect dog, yet not a perfect doberman. he is boisterous friendly very well socialised but ever since he was a puppy when he meets a new (larger dog) or pack of larger dogs he shows ery submissive behaviour until they are ok with him wich is generaly fine. but as soon as he is threatened he submits and cowers. as we all know dogs dont respect weak dogs so they can get a bit rough or gang up on mine then mine yelps alot and is very scared resulting in either a small attack or dogs ganging up on him and barking like crazy. hes never been bitten but he doesnt realise hes submissive behaviour towards dogs is what is causing him to get in fights. also what age do dobermans become protective and truly loyal/ devoted to there owners my dog seems to follow me all over the place and listens to me and respects me yet i have not seen a single trace of doberman protectiveness, cheers

FOR A WOMAN- its harder to FEEL love if you were raised in a single parent home (mom) and she was a umm..? "neighboorhood-friendly" lady, Who never had NEVER been an example of loving relationships to me. I'm asking because I cant bring myself to live, walk, and breath love I can only say it. Its like I dont know how to be submissive and love. Why is this, or can someone give me some insight to the underlying issue. Is this fixable?

Should I stay single my whole life? I am afraid that if I got a girlfriend, I would end up getting married, having sex, and having kids. I am deathly afraid of sex because I view it as a submissive and shameful act, and if I had kids, my parents would know that I have sex, which I would be extremely embarrassed about. I know that seems funny, but it brings a great deal of anxiety to me. I want my parents to see me as celibate, not as a person who has sex. I told my parents that I wanted to be single the rest of my life, and they both said that I would be missing out in life if I never got married or had kids. My mom told me that I would change my mind when I met the right girl and my dad told me that sex is a part of life, even though I am still deathly afraid of it.

Need a Controling Man In my Life? I am a single 24 yo. I am very submissive and I grew up in a strict family and I am looking for a man who will control me and treat me like a woman. I know most people would find it strange. but I don't like men who are push over's who don't really know what they want or are too afraid to speak their mind or make me do what they need me to do. I want to find a man who is willing to show me that he is the Man of my life in every way. I'm not asking for someone who is mean, abusive or insensitive just someone who will be my King. Is there a place or web site I could go to to find such a man...they seem to be very rare?

What Can We Do to Help Win the War on Terror?-Advice please.? Here's the thing---------this question is not here for our normal rantings-----save that for my previous or next question. LOL I am looking for honest intelligent people to share what they feel could be of benefit to the entire free world. please read what I copied and pasted -----this blog I found in another yahoo answers question/answer-----it SURE did open my eyes up and I strongly suggest you share this info with everyone you know that values their future. Remember some of these terrorists have higher education and are articulate enough to infiltrate yahoo answers with their dis-information and anti-American hate. THE WAR Please take the time to read the essay below by Dr. Chong. It is without a doubt the most articulate and convincing writing I have read regarding the War in Iraq. If you have any doubts please open your mind to his essay and give it a fair evaluation. I had no idea who Dr. Chong is or the source of these thoughts... so when I received them, I almost deleted them - as well-written as they are. But then I did a "Google search" on the Doctor and found him to be a retired Air Force Surgeon of all things and past Commander of Wilford Hall Medical Center in San Antonio. So he is real, is connected to Veterans affairs in California, and these are his thoughts. This WAR is for REAL! Dr. Vernon Chong, Major General, USAF, Retired Tuesday, July 12, 2005. To get out of a difficulty, one usually must go through it. Our country is now facing the most serious threat to its existence, as we know it, that we have faced in your lifetime and mine (which includes WWII). The deadly seriousness is greatly compounded by the fact that there are very few of us who think we can possibly lose this war and even fewer who realize what losing really means. First, let's examine a few basics: 1. When did the threat to us start? Many will say September 11, 2001. The answer as far as the United States is concerned is 1979, 22 years prior to September 2001, with the following attacks on us: * Iran Embassy Hostages, 1979; * Beirut, Lebanon Embassy 1983; * Beirut, Lebanon Marine Barracks 1983; * Lockerbie, Scotland Pan-Am flight to New York 1988; * First New York World Trade Center attack 1993; * Dhahran, Saudi Arabia Khobar Towers Military complex 1996; * Nairobi, Kenya US Embassy 1998; * Dares Salaam, Tanzania US Embassy 1998; * Aden, Yemen USS Cole 2000; * New York World Trade Center 2001; * Pentagon 2001. (Note that during the period from 1981 to 2001 there were 7,581 terrorist attacks worldwide). 2. Why were we attacked? Envy of our position, our success, and our freedoms. The attacks happened during the administrations of Presidents Carter, Reagan, Bush 1, Clinton and Bush 2. We cannot fault either the Republicans or Democrats as there were no provocations by any of the presidents or their immediate predecessors, Presidents Ford or Carter. 3. Who were the attackers? In each case, the attacks on the US were carried out by Muslims. 4. What is the Muslim population of the World? 25%. 5. Isn't the Muslim Religion peaceful? Hopefully, but that is really not material. There is no doubt that the predominately Christian population of Germany was peaceful, but under the dictatorial leadership of Hitler (who was also Christian), that made no difference. You either went along with the administration or you were eliminated. There were 5 to 6 million Christians killed by the Nazis for political reasons (including 7,000 Polish priests). (see http://www.nazis.testimony.co.uk/7-a.htm... Thus, almost the same number of Christians were killed by the Nazis, as the six million holocaust Jews who were killed by them, and we seldom heard of anything other than the Jewish atrocities. Although Hitler kept the world focused on the Jews, he had no hesitancy about killing anyone who got in his way of exterminating the Jews or of taking over the world - German, Christian or any others. Same with the Muslim terrorists. They focus the world on the US, but kill all in the way -- their own people or the Spanish, French or anyone else. The point here is that just like the peaceful Germans were of no protection to anyone from the Nazis, no matter how many peaceful Muslims there may be, they are no protection for us from the terrorist Muslim leaders and what they are fanatically bent on doing -- by their own pronouncements -- killing all of us "infidels." I don't blame the peaceful Muslims. What would you do if the choice was shut up or die? 6. So who are we at war with? There is no way we can honestly respond that it is anyone other than the Muslim terrorists. Trying to be politically correct and avoid verbalizing this conclusion can well be fatal. There is no way to win if you don't clearly recognize and articulate who you are fighting. So with that background, now to the two major questions: 1. Can we lose this war? 2. What does losing really mean? If we are to win, we must clearly answer these two pivotal questions. We can definitely lose this war, and as anomalous as it may sound, the major reason we can lose is that so many of us simply do not fathom the answer to the second question - What does losing mean? It would appear that a great many of us think that losing the war means hanging our heads, bringing the troops home and going on about our business, like post Vietnam. This is as far from the truth as one can get. What losing really means is: We would no longer be the premier country in the world. The attacks will not subside, but rather will steadily increase. Remember, they want us dead, not just quiet. If they had just wanted us quiet, they would not have produced an increasing series of attacks against us, over the past 18 years. The plan was clearly, for terrorists to attack us, until we were neutered and submissive to them. We would of course have no future support from other nations, for fear of reprisals and for the reason that they would see, we are impotent and cannot help them. They will pick off the other non-Muslim nations, one at a time. It will be increasingly easier for them. They already hold Spain hostage. It doesn't matter whether it was right or wrong for Spain to withdraw its troops from Iraq. Spain did it because the Muslim terrorists bombed their train and told them to withdraw the troops. Anything else they want Spain to do will be done. Spain is finished. The next will probably be France. Our one hope on France is that they might see the light and realize that if we don't win, they are finished too, in that they can't resist the Muslim terrorists without us. However, it may already be too late for France. France is already 20% Muslim and fading fast! If we lose the war, our production, income, exports and way of life will all vanish as we know it. After losing, who would trade or deal with us, if they were threatened by the Muslims. If we can't stop the Muslims, how could anyone else? The Muslims fully know what is riding on this war, and therefore are completely committed to winning, at any cost. We better know it too and be likewise committed to winning at any cost. Why do I go on at such lengths about the results of losing? Simple. Until we recognize the costs of losing, we cannot unite and really put 100% of our thoughts and efforts into winning. And it is going to take that 100% effort to win. So, how can we lose the war? Again, the answer is simple. We can lose the war by "imploding." That is, defeating ourselves by refusing to recognize the enemy and their purpose, and really digging in and lending full support to the war effort. If we are united, there is no way that we can lose. If we continue to be divided, there is no way that we can win! Let me give you a few examples of how we simply don't comprehend the life and death seriousness of this situation. President Bush selects Norman Mineta as Secretary of Transportation. Although all of the terrorist attacks were committed by Muslim men between 17 and 40 years of age, Secretary Mineta refuses to allow profiling. Does that sound like we are taking this thing seriously? This is war! For the duration, we are going to have to give up some of the civil rights we have become accustomed to. We had better be prepared to lose some of our civil rights temporarily or we will most certainly lose all of them permanently. And don't worry that it is a slippery slope. We gave up plenty of civil rights during WWII, and immediately restored them after the victory and in fact added many more since then. Do I blame President Bush or President Clinton before him? No, I blame us for blithely assuming we can maintain all of our Political Correctness, and all of our civil rights during this conflict and have a clean, lawful, honorable war. None of those words apply to war. Get them out of your head. Some have gone so far in their criticism of the war and/or the Administration that it almost seems they would literally like to see us lose. I hasten to add that this isn't because they are disloyal. It is because they just don't recognize what losing means. Nevertheless, that conduct gives the impression to the enemy that we are divided and weakening. It concerns our friends, and it does great damage to our cause. Of more recent vintage, the uproar fueled by the politicians and media regarding the treatment of some prisoners of war, perhaps exemplifies best what I am saying. We have recently had an issue, involving the treatment of a few Muslim prisoners of war, by a small group of our military police. These are the type prisoners who just a few months ago were throwing their own people off buildings, cutting off their hands, cutting out their tongues and otherwise murdering their own people just for disagreeing with Saddam Hussein. And just a few years ago these same type prisoners chemically killed 400,000 of their own people for the same reason. They are also the same type of enemy fighters, who recently were burning Americans, and dragging their charred corpses through the streets of Iraq. And still more recently, the same type of enemy that was and is providing videos to all news sources internationally, of the beheading of American prisoners they held. Compare this with some of our press and politicians, who for several days have thought and talked about nothing else but the "humiliating" of some Muslim prisoners -- not burning them, not dragging their charred corpses through the streets, not beheading them, but "humiliating" them. Can this be for real? The politicians and pundits have even talked of impeachment of the Secretary of Defense. If this doesn't show the complete lack of comprehension and understanding of the seriousness of the enemy we are fighting, the life and death struggle we are in and the disastrous results of losing this war, nothing can. To bring our country to a virtual political standstill over this prisoner issue makes us look like Nero playing his fiddle as Rome burned -- totally oblivious to what is going on in the real world. Neither we, nor any other country, can survive this internal strife. Again I say, this does not mean that some of our politicians or media people are disloyal. It simply means that they are absolutely oblivious to the magnitude of the situation we are in, and into which the Muslim terrorists have been pushing us, for many years. Remember, the Muslim terrorists stated goal is to kill all infidels! That translates into ALL non-Muslims -- not just in the United States, but throughout the world. We are the last bastion of defense. We have been criticized for many years as being 'arrogant.' That charge is valid in at least one respect. We are arrogant in that we believe that we are so good, powerful and smart, that we can win the hearts and minds of all those who attack us, and that with both hands tied behind our back, we can defeat anything bad in the world! We can't! If we don't recognize this, our nation as we know it will not survive, and no other free country in the world will survive if we are defeated. And finally, name any Muslim countries throughout the world that allow freedom of speech, freedom of thought, freedom of religion, freedom of the press, equal rights for anyone -- let alone everyone, equal status or any status for women, or that have been productive in one single way that contributes to the good of the world. This has been a long way of saying that we must be united on this war or we will be equated in the history books to the self-inflicted fall of the Roman Empire. If, that is, the Muslim leaders will allow history books to be written or read. If we don't win this war right now, keep a close eye on how the Muslims take over France in the next 5 years or less. They will continue to increase the Muslim population of France and continue to encroach little by little, on the established French traditions. The French will be fighting among themselves, over what should or should not be done, which will continue to weaken them and keep them from any united resolve. Doesn't that sound eerily familiar? Democracies don't have their freedoms taken away from them by some external military force. Instead, they give their freedoms away, politically correct piece by politically correct piece. And they are giving those freedoms away to those who have shown, worldwide that they abhor freedom and will not apply it to you or even to themselves, once they are in power. They have universally shown that when they have taken over, they then start brutally killing each other over who will be the few who control the masses. Will we ever stop hearing from the politically correct, about the "peaceful Muslims"? I close on a hopeful note, by repeating what I said above. If we are united, there is no way that we can lose. I hope the factions in our country will begin to focus on the critical situation we are in, and will unite to save our country. It is your future we are talking about! Do whatever you can to preserve it. After reading the above, we all must do this not only for ourselves, but our children, our grandchildren, our country and the world. Whether Democrat or Republican, conservative or liberal and that includes the Politicians

How do I forget my ex. boyfriend? I cannot stop loving him and missing him after over a year.? My ex. and I went out for 5 yrs. We fought endlessly and he constantly wanted to change me because he wanted me to be more submissive. He comes from another culture and in his culture, women should be submissive. Things got bad as I became agressive towards him and he became even more verbally abusive towards me. We broke up over a year ago but never really had closure..I wrote him a long letter but he never responded. I now have a boyf. that treats me with love and respect. However, I cannot help it, I stillI think of my ex. every single day. I also dream about him or his family at least 3-4 times a week ever since we broke up. I get urges to call him and write him emails but hold myself back out of respect for my boyf. and to myself because he hurt me. I try to remind myself that he did not treat me well, but it feels like I will never be over him no matter what I do. My head tells me to forget him but my heart is still hooked.What should I do? Please help!

My dog is very shy and afraid of most situations- how can I change that? My little Dandie, the Catahoula Leopard dog, is afraid of many things. For example, she shies away from a simple brushing, or she will hide for a long time in her cage if someone raises his voice at her. She gets a lot of affection and praises, but I cannot seem to make her more confident. I mean, she's very submissive. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can change that? She's a very sweet dog, but I hate that every single thing she will hide in her cage...and FYI- She was never abused, I got her from the shelter as an 8 week old puppy.

will I remain single forever? I am 26, and I have never dated anybody in my life. I am of Asian origin- so, arranged marriages are the norm of my society. But, since I have lived in the US for the last several years, I cannot just accept a guy as my husband all of a sudden..I am the worst mix of eastern & western culture. (I am not into dating; nor am I submissive).. I have the feeling that I would remain single forever.. what shd I do?

how do i get a man to be more agressive in our relationship?? we have been seeing each other for 2 1/2 monts and are officially dating as of this week hes attentive and listens well and very affectionate and open but hes not very aggressive at somethings im dominate/independant and would like to play the submissive role sometimes i have been single for 3 1/2 yrs and would like a man to pamper and take charge so i dont have to do all the work all the time any sugesstions??

Okay, so according to Yahoo answerers, the woman in a marriage should...? Do all the housework without help, raise the kids single-handedly, give up sex because she owes it to her husband, be submissive, and just do it all because her hubby is kind enough to put a roof over her head. Oh, and not get argumentative when he wants to look at porn because it is a guy thing. No wonder 1/2 of marriages end in divorce.

mail order brides? what is the thought on mail order brides I realize most women are mad about it thinking the man wants a submissive or subservient woman. most men I have talked to say it is because american women expect to much of a free ride (mind you this is only a small group of friends I have asked 4 married 6 not married) one even said american women tend to do what they can till they get the ring then do less because if they get divorced they get half anyway. another pointed out a woman and/or man who get married tend to do less to keep them such as the woman/man suddenly not going to the gym being romantic or even affecianate. what do you think the difference in mail order versus home grown is? P.S. if all you say is the ones who order mail order are losers I don't even want to hear it. I want thoughts not stupid unwitty answers, or at least be original with it. use a brain cell or two their cheap. I set this in singles and dating as well as here for a broader look into what people might say

Is it okay for girls to be submissive? I'm a 21yr old single girl waiting on the day i find my husband to be intimate with.. i think men should have control in bed.. i think thats just the way its suppose to be.. i mean i want to have a good time to, but i think men should have complete control in bed like coming in from work grabbing his woman and taking her to the bed and just take over from there.. is that okay or should it be different..

What is the problem if I want to be single for life? I have never loved anyone in my life, even my parents, but I respect my parents. I don't love, but I respect. I think love is for weaklings and is not manly. Since I am a man, I trained myself from an early age to not feel any emotion besides anger. I never smile and I laugh only with my best friends. Most girls I know are a bunch of cry babies or cheerleaders who are already taken. I could never give a girl a gift or flowers without being embarassed. So right there, that would ruin it. The only thing I have ever been afraid in my life of is love. I will never show it and I don't want anyone to show it to me or I would probably have a stroke. I hate sex because it is a weak, disgusting, and submissive act, and I might end up with kids. I am the controller and dictator, not an inferior woman. Women should play lesser roles. I could never be a father and I have no patience for little kids. So I can't see why people think I am missing out on life when I avoid women and kids altogether.

Are there any REAL women out there that actually like to be in control and kinky in the bedroom? It seems you all are either taken or "professional" dominatrix. Is there any single woman who would like to share some fantasies or get to know a single guy into being submissive for fun? I've been looking for years! If it's true, PLEASE drop me an email or IM. Thanks!

Are there ANY women who actually enjoy being in control in the bedroom? It seems you all are either taken or "professional" dominatrix. Is there any single woman who would like to share some fantasies or get to know a single guy into being submissive for fun? I've been looking for years! If it's true, PLEASE drop your email/IM here :) Thanks! I'm on messenger too . Thanks!

Are there any women left that enjoy being dominant in the bedroom? It seems you all are either taken or "professional" dominatrix. Is there any single woman who would like to share some fantasies or get to know a single guy into being submissive for fun? I've been looking for years! If it's true, PLEASE drop your email here :) Thanks!

(Sandstorm!!!) What exactly does it mean to be a "submissive woman"? I'm kind of asking you, Sandstorm.... just because I've looked at a lot of your questions.... you seem like you like to portray a man that truly loves and values women... but at the same time feel quite superior to them. But how can you say you love and respect a woman when you feel that you are a superior being? I'm not knocking the behavior- don't know enough about it.. just curious... I HATE to be controlled, more than anything.... but at the same time, I'm HIGHLY attracted to (sexually and otherwise) to a strong man that is willing to take control and protect.... maybe that's just instinctual... I do a lot with my life... I'm a single mother, with an A.S. in Rad Technology, work two jobs, currently in school full time working on my bachelor's degree, and I'm doing it without the help of a man.... but that's not to say I don't want or need that... I just feel like a strong woman... wondering how you or others with this (woman=sub) perspective feel about the way I live my life? NO no no.... I want ANYONE and everyone to answer... I've just noticed a lot of interesting answers from him so I wanted to see what he thought.... I'd LOVE to hear everyone's thoughts!!!:) Well, believe it or not... I don't think I have any major issues with what you've said... I'm surprised, really.... lol... but I kind of agree to some extent... I still wonder about some of your questions..lol... but if you believe everything you've said here, then I guess I see where you're coming from... and I'm cool with that!:) and as for the other two....lol.... yall aint right...:))) But I like it!!:) hehe

Where are all the wives? Fellas, have you noticed that most of these females arent wifey material anymore. I mean, its hard to find a women who is: 1. Beautiful 1a. Cute 1b. In Shape 1c. Age Nicely 2. Clean 3. Single 4. Submissive and/or Docile 5. Respectful 6. No Kids. 7. No Baggage 8. Not a Hoe 9. Potential to be a good mom 10. Kind 11. Loving 12. Good Famliy Background. 13. Straight 14. Can Cook 15. Smart (And my little bonus) 16. Can Iron a damn shirt. (This one is just for laughs) Somebody tell me if they have found a women with these qualities.. I will tell you that you are a lucky man.

Are there any real women left that enjoy being dominant in the bedroom? It seems you all are either taken or "professional" dominatrix. Is there any single woman who would like to share some fantasies or get to know a single guy into being submissive for fun? I've been looking for years! If it's true, PLEASE drop your email here :) Thanks!

I have a mad dog..........? in company she is fine but out in public when she sees a single submissive dog she will play attack. She is not aggressive but I need to quash this behaviour. Do you have any suggestions. She is a lurcher (Collie cross). in a pack she is very submissive jst when she sees a single dog she feels more dominent

Single Ladies: What does your ideal man look like? Looks? Assertive? Submissive? Money? Intelligence? Humor? Compatibility? Excitement? Opposites attract? Kindness? Loyalty? Dependability? The list goes on and on...you pick something else if I didn't think of it. Sure you want it all but if you had to chose only your top 3, what would they be? Or are you an uber-romantic whose sure the man you pick won't be like anything you imagined?

Are there bisexual/bicurious women in the Seattle area interested in polygyny and DOMINATE/submissiveness? If there are such bisexual and bicurious women interested in polygyny and DOMINATE/submissiveness in the area, can they be contacted on yahoo? If so how are they to be found? Also, tell me of other USA cities these ladies may be found. i am interested in connecting with other submissives, as well as DOMINATE WOMEN. THANK YOU. From: a single bi-submissive female seeking polygyny

Are women more comfortable being single and independent or married and interdependent? This question is not to offend anyone, it's just a question of curiosity. Do women prefer to be single and doing their own thing while being a positive example to other singles or , a married career woman (and mom) being that same positive example showing the ability to be mom, wife, career woman and still be submissive to hubby while holding fast to a degree of independence?

whats the best way to find a partner? i'm a single submissive guy, who is very interested in lots of forms of bdsm, and very kinky. so what the best way to go about finding a female partner, should i look for a "normal" girl that i like, get on with and have a few things in common with, and hope that i can introduce her into the kinier side of my life, and hope she doesnt run a mile. or should i look for a more dominat women,into the same sort of kinky things i am, and hope that we have things in common outside the bdsm world? any advise would be good, and any tips on where to find any would be great too this is a serious question, has i have been taken 4 a ride by some fake online Dommes b4

my girlfriends son treats her like an abusive husband would treat a submissive woman. how do i help? she's ok with the abuse. she insists that its better to do as the son wants (the son is 14) than to say no and have an argument. He will walk past the refridgerator up to his room then yell to her to go and make him some grub. she'll make him a sandwich and he will have one bite, push it aside and say its better to eat out. He wants a hockey table today, we found out the sale is on monday but she will rather spend the extra $50 and get it today because he has to have it now. He'll spill food all over the living room floor then tell her how messy her house is and ask that she clean it so he can sleep better tonight. if she buys chips they MUST be the expensive kind, everything is about having the BEST of everything for him and the heck with anyone else. I've yet to see him or hear about one single thing that he has done for her. yet you cannot tell someone hoe to parent their child. i hate watching it. how do i help? i've told her to put him on an allowance and give him chore i've told her to give him chores and insist he start doing something, anything around the house, but its "her little baby" and "he'll grow out of it" she says with a smile. I wouldn't give that brat anything for the next year the way he acts. His birthday is coming up and we've been told not to come by him and his friends, just order pizza, have the cake and gifts ready, have the hockey table assembled and go hide in another room. why is she fine with this? My girlfriend and I both grew up in generous yet strict families, we both had chores, earner allowances and would be grounded for acting like this. family therapy is out as she will definitely not go. i don't like to try disciplining him since he's not my child and i don't feel like i have the right to do so, so i just shake my head and walk away. i have attempted several times to point things and ideas out but they just shrug them off. he stares at me with that "who are you to say so look" and she won't do anything. !!!!!!!!!!!! Sab B please contact me i'd like to ask you more questions or talk to you about my question and your answer. I can use your help on this one.

Why does my girlfriend like being submissive? I'm 22 years old... girlfriend is 35. Been dating since '07. Apparently she is into younger dudes, some people call these women "cougars" or whatever. Basically she's a total cougar supposedly: has her own house, has a CPA-accounting job, etc. She does everything for me. Buys me videogames, movies, etc. She allows me to do whatever I want and not work. She cleans my clothes, does the dishes, you know what.. she just cleans and does everything for me. She doesn't do this on her own though. It's not like one day she just up and did it by herself. I started out slowly and had her iron my shirts and **** before work, and then I began to add-on to that. Eventually she does everything for me.. without a SINGLE hint of hesitation or qualms. This is awesome, but man.. am I a total jerk or what for doing it? I don't feel bad about it, I think it's ****in awesome! ^ In the second paragraph I said she would iron my shirts before WORK. I "used" to have a job, before I told her it was unnecessary for me to work anymore.

Excited or Submissive Pee from my yr old dog? I got my mini doxie when she was about 4mos old. She'll be a year old in about a week. She has done great with house breaking, the only thing I can't seem to break her of is excited peeing. It never fails, every single time my boyfriend comes over and he greets her she pees, even if she just came from outside. Sometimes when I play with her she'll do it. Does anybody have any suggestions?! I thought at least by now all this "excitement" would be done with. Please help!